Mable LaVonne "Bonnie" Shirley was born on May 4, 1934, east of Albia, Iowa, in Monroe County. The day before departing this world, she said, "I've been chosen" and entered her eternal rest on March 3, 2024, at the age of 89 years. She was a resident of The Cottages in Pella, Iowa, since last November. A private family celebration will be held at a later date with burial in Corning, Iowa.
Bonnie was the fourth child of Fred Kenneth Gray and Marjorie Mabel Estlack. Her siblings were Geraldine (Jerry), Betty, Leland, Phillip, Marjorie Lea and Rosemary.
Blakesburg, Iowa, was home to her upper education where she graduated in 1953 from high school. On April 12, 1953, she married her high school sweetheart, John Paul Shirley in Lancaster, Missouri. Together they had five children who blessed their union: Debbie, Cindy, Mark, Judy, and Vicki.
Bonnie was very handy with crafts, learned to decorate cakes with daughter Cindy - then proceeded to make and decorate her children's high school graduation cakes, she took up quilting, went to Des Moines and took the Bob Ross painting classes which resulted in several paintings for her children.
She was a former member of the Motor Friends Church near Milo, and participated in the Ladies Aid Society as well as serving in various capacities during Vacation Bible School - especially teaching the crafts.
Her early years as a farm wife she learned to drive a tractor, raised a large garden, and sewed clothes for the children. She enjoyed square dancing, fishing, and camping. After John passed away in 2004, she served a few years as campground host in Knoxville, Iowa, with 'Twinkles' her poodle.
In 2009, Bonnie suffered a debilitating stroke, forcing her to be wheelchair bound. She had limited use of one leg, no use of her right arm/hand yet she learned to write left-handed, dress herself, and lived in her home at Corning, until moving to Knoxville in 2018. Time after the stroke led her to table puzzles, playing solitaire on her tablet, and playing Skip-Bo with visitors.
January 2023, saw Bonnie needing more care and she was moved to Pleasantville Accura Care and then in November 2023, to The Cottages in Pella, until her death. This last move was ideal for Bonnie and she loved it there - you could find her by the fireplace soaking up the heat and playing BINGO. She was very fond of the aides and nurses - they were all considered family in this new home.
Bonnie was preceded in death by her parents; husband John in 2004; daughter Cindy in 2001; sisters: Jerry (and spouse Robert) Glenn, Rosemary Haskell, Marjorie Lea Anderson, and brother Phillip Gray.
Those left to cherish her memory include her children, 12 grandchildren, 20 great grandchildren, and 1 great great granddaughter, two siblings: Betty (Milton) Ubbink, and Leland (Evelyn) Gray, sister-in-law Janice Gray as well as many nieces, nephews, and friends.
Bonnie’s Family:
John Paul Shirley
Debbie and Robert Van Waardhuizen
Brenda Van Waardhuizen and Dean McCarthy
Dakota Cingle
Chelsea and Nick Hughes
Melissa and Rodney Nevels
Ashley Houser
Josie and Bradley Sleeth
Sadie Mae Sleeth
Bobbi and David Ammons
Dillen Ammons
Carson Ammons
Elizabeth Ammons
Cindy Baker (deceased)
Amber and Robert Sar
Westin Sar
Quinn Sar
Andrea Caverty
Grayson Caverty
Mark and Kim Shirley
Aaron and Leslie Shirley
John Shirley
Mark Shirley
Jamie Shirley
Judy and Ivan Wolf
Eric and Denise Wolf
Shae Wolf
Adam and Jessica Wolf
Maya, Nathan, Evie Wolf
Todd Wolf
Sara and Jason Hefflefinger
Miles, Kyler Hefflefinger
Vicki and Roger Haley
Bryan Haley and Kayla Stuber
Foxx, Cora Haley
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